You’re a high value woman… and you deserve to be treated as such.
But what if a guy you just began dating isn’t treating you how you’d like to be treated?
Do you just keep your mouth shut and grin and bear it?
How does a confident woman handle that situation?
She doesn't sit there and coddle a guy that's not treating her in the way that she needs to be treated. She doesn't even waste her time trying to teach him a lesson or help him.
No, she simply focuses her time and energy back into her amazing ambitious life.
So if a guy is treating you in a certain way that you don’t appreciate, you're not gonna admonish him…
Or give him feedback…
Or ask him to change…
And expect that all of a sudden, he's going to become a different person.
I wish that that's how easy it was and people could just change.
So instead of wasting your time and energy…
Trying to teach a guy a lesson or trying to lift him up so he can somehow be a good partner to you…
I would encourage you to let him go.
And just you having those standards is going to increase his attraction to you and allow him… (if he’s a smart guy) to look at himself and how he's treating you…
And figure it out on his own and change his ways, if he wants to be with someone like you.
But if you have to do it yourself, if you have to be the one telling him that he needs to change, then it's just never going to work.
I'm telling you right now, he is not going to act any different.
He’ll only resent you for criticizing him.
Just remember… You’re a prize. If he doesn’t recognize that, then he’s not the one for you.